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After Praise or Success
When favorable events occur, such as receiving praise or achieving success, it is natural to feel a sense of accomplishment. However, Stoic philosophy encourages us to examine the source and nature of such external validations. The true measure of our character lies not in the accolades we receive, but in the virtues we cultivate and the choices we make. This approach helps us maintain an inner equilibrium, ensuring that external opinions do not dictate our self-worth or moral compass.
On this page you will get a clear explanation, a way to examine the idea, exact evidence from public-domain Stoic texts, and links for continuing the study.
Distinguishing True Good from External Praise
Stoicism teaches that true good resides in virtue, not in external outcomes like praise or success. While these may be pleasant, they are not inherently good in the same way that prudence or justice are. We must differentiate between what is genuinely praiseworthy and what merely elicits applause.
Many things, such as health, strength, riches, and glory, are often called good by common opinion. However, these are not considered praiseworthy in the same sense as moral excellence. Our focus should remain on developing internal virtues, which are truly within our control and constitute genuine good.
Sources: Cicero, On Ends 4.18
The Nature of Virtue and Praise
Virtue is an internal quality, a disposition of the mind that is truly praiseworthy. It is not dependent on external recognition or the opinions of others. When we act virtuously, the praise is a byproduct, not the goal.
The mind possesses virtues like prudence, temperance, fortitude, and justice. These are voluntary virtues, meaning they depend on our will and are subjects of true praise. External praise for these actions is merely an acknowledgment of an already existing internal excellence.
Sources: Cicero, On Ends 5.13
Philosophy as the Study of Virtue
Philosophy is understood as the study of virtue, and virtue is the object sought. The two cannot be separated, as philosophy cannot exist without virtue, nor virtue without philosophy. This means our pursuit of wisdom is inherently a pursuit of moral excellence.
The path to virtue is not external to virtue itself. It is not like aiming at a distant target, but rather like a road that leads into a city, where the approach is part of the city. The study of virtue is intertwined with virtue itself.
Sources: Seneca, Moral Letters to Lucilius 89.8
Internal vs. External Goods
Stoicism distinguishes between things that are truly good, which are internal and depend on our will, and things that are merely preferred indifferents, which are external. Praise and success fall into the latter category. They are not inherently good or bad.
While health, strength, riches, and glory may be desirable, they are not praiseworthy in the same way as virtues. They are external circumstances that can be used well or poorly, but they do not define our moral character.
Sources: Cicero, On Ends 4.18; Cicero, On Ends 5.13
Maintaining Equanimity Amidst Acclaim
When praise or success comes, it is important to maintain an even temper and not let these external events inflate our ego or distract us from our virtuous path. Our inner state should remain undisturbed by the fluctuating opinions of others.
True excellence is found in the voluntary virtues of the mind, such as prudence and justice. These are the qualities that truly merit praise, regardless of whether that praise is given or withheld by others.
Sources: Cicero, On Ends 4.18; Cicero, On Ends 5.13
The Role of Self-Reflection
After receiving praise, reflect on whether the praise aligns with your internal virtues and actions. Use it as an opportunity for self-assessment, not as a definitive judgment of your worth. The true judge of your character is yourself.
Focus on cultivating the virtues that are within your control, such as temperance and fortitude. These are the real and great virtues that lead to a praiseworthy life, independent of external validation.
Sources: Cicero, On Ends 5.13; Seneca, Moral Letters to Lucilius 89.8
What the primary texts say
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“Aristotle, Xenocrates, and all that school, will not grant it; inasmuch as they call health, strength, riches, glory, and many other things good, but not praiseworthy;”
“For philosophy cannot exist without virtue, nor virtue without philosophy. Philosophy is the study of virtue, by means, however, of virtue itself;”
“The other class consists of those which are great and real virtues; which we call voluntary, such as prudence, temperance, fortitude, justice,”
Frequently asked questions
How does Stoicism view external praise?
Stoicism considers external praise as an indifferent, neither inherently good nor bad. While it may be pleasant, it does not contribute to one's true virtue or happiness, which are internal.
Sources: Cicero, On Ends 4.18
What is the Stoic definition of true good?
True good, according to Stoicism, resides in virtue and the voluntary actions of the mind, such as prudence, temperance, fortitude, and justice. These are within our control.
Sources: Cicero, On Ends 5.13
Should I avoid seeking success or recognition?
Stoicism does not demand avoiding success or recognition, but rather not making them your primary goal. Focus on virtuous action; if success follows, accept it without attachment or letting it define your worth.
Sources: Seneca, Moral Letters to Lucilius 89.8
How can I remain grounded after a significant achievement?
To remain grounded, remember that true praiseworthiness comes from internal virtues, not external achievements. Reflect on your character and actions, not the applause.
Sources: Cicero, On Ends 5.13
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