Stoic Manuals
A Stoic Manual for Adversity
Separate the obstacle from the verdict and choose the character of the response.
What this manual is for
Separate the obstacle from the verdict and choose the character of the response. Work with one actual situation at a time; the aim is to practise judgment and conduct, not to guarantee an external result.
Read the primary-source anchors first, then use the sequence as a repeatable course of attention and action.
The sequence
1. The Dichotomy of Control. Sort what is yours from what no choice can command. Use it when being tested or uncertainty.
2. The Inner Citadel. Return to the judgment and intention that remain yours anywhere. Use it when stress or urge to escape.
3. Welcoming Your Fate. Begin from what is and ask what worthy action it invites. Use it when resistance or frustration.
How to review the work
After the final step, record what belonged to your judgment and action, what remained outside your command, and what you would rehearse differently next time.
A review is evidence for the next practice, not a verdict on your worth.
Practice sequence
- 1The Dichotomy of Control
Sort what is yours from what no choice can command.
- 2The Inner Citadel
Return to the judgment and intention that remain yours anywhere.
- 3Welcoming Your Fate
Begin from what is and ask what worthy action it invites.
Primary-text evidence
These excerpts are shown with their exact work locators. Read them as evidence for study, not as detached slogans.
“Of things some are in our power, and others are not. In our power are opinion (ὑπόληψις), movement towards a thing (ὁρμή), desire, aversion (ἔκκλισις, turning from a thing); and in a word, whatever are our own acts: not in our power are the body, property, reputation, offices (magisterial power), and in a word, whatever are not our own acts. And the things in our power are by nature free, not subject to restraint nor hindrance: but the things not in our power are weak, slavish, subject to restraint, in the power of others. Remember then that if you think the things which are by nature slavish to be free, and the things which are in the power of others to be your own, you will be hindered, you will lament, you will be disturbed, you will blame both…”
“Of all the faculties (except that which I shall soon mention), you will find not one which is capable of contemplating itself, and, consequently, not capable either of approving or disapproving. How far does the grammatic art possess the contemplating power? As far as forming a judgment about what is written and spoken. And how far music? As far as judging about melody. Does either of them then contemplate itself? By no means. But when you must write something to your friend, grammar will tell you what words you should write; but whether you should write or not, grammar will not tell you. And so it is with music as to musical sounds; but whether you should sing at the present time and play on the lute, or do neither, music will not tell you. What…”
“Remember that desire contains in it the profession (hope) of obtaining that which you desire; and the profession (hope) in aversion (turning from a thing) is that you will not fall into that which you attempt to avoid: and he who fails in his desire is unfortunate; and he who falls into that which he would avoid, is unhappy. If then you attempt to avoid only the things contrary to nature which are within your power, you will not be involved in any of the things which you would avoid. But if you attempt to avoid disease or death or poverty, you will be unhappy. Take away then aversion from all things which are not in our power, and transfer it to the things contrary to nature which are in our power. But destroy desire completely for the present. For…”